About Shay

Welcome To Shaybetter

The Love D.I.V.A.

Hello! I’m Shay, and I’m going to teach you how to achieve the consistent results you demand in your love life.

The Love D.I.V.A.


Shay Levister, also known as “Shay Your Love Diva™” to her fans, considers her most rewarding titles to be “wife” and “mom.” Shay is happily married with four kids to her high school sweetheart. Shay first met her husband-to-be when she was 14 years old; However, they lost contact for several years after she graduated college and he left for the Airforce. After experiencing the worst relationship failures and disappointments that included a divorce and a half, Shay decided it was time to follow her own advice and get whole. After months of counseling and self-healing, she serendipitously ran into her childhood best friend and first love. Eventually their relationship blossomed into more than a friendship and its been a magical love experience ever since. They love date nights every Friday night, making lasting memories while traveling the world with their four children, and building a powerful empire together.


Shay is a perfect example of what can happen for you. She refused to give up on love and continued to experiment on herself until she unlocked the code to true love. With a humble heart full of the best intentions, she wishes to guide her clients to experience the true love they yearn for, too.  

Shay is a dating and relationship expert, a writer, a speaker, and a certified relationship coach who is passionate about helping to empower women and men of all ages to not settle for less than the love experience they deserve. Since 2007, Shay has been helping souls one heart at a time heal and attract the love experience they desire. 

After one heartbreak after another, she decided to go on a journey to uncover the secrets of understanding men, the art of dating, and what it takes to attract the right man. This research paid off because after launching her experiment of dating over 100 men within nine months, reading over 100 relationship books, and interviewing hundreds of men, women and couples, Shay Your Love Diva discovered that there are common patterns in male-female relationship that either lead to a happy, healthy relationship or a relationship of pain.  She published a best selling book as a guide to using the Law of Attraction in dating and relationships and used her very own research results and understanding of men to attract her soulmate and best friend. She learned her acquired knowledge and expertise can equip both men and women in their endeavors to find and keep love.  

Shay is featured on several episodes of TV One’s Fatal Attractions and has appeared on the Tom Joyner Morning Show, Atlanta’s V103, many magazine articles, radio interviews, and TV shows. She was also a Rolling Out Magazine and Issues Magazine Love & Relationship column writer. She has provided supporting content featured in the Essence Magazine article: Amazing Ways To Get A Fresh Start For Spring. 

Shay Your Date Diva uses her tremendous knowledge to offer relationship advice to men and women all over the world through her radio and television interviews, as well as her growing YouTube.com channel that features over 200 videos sharing her dating experience and expertise. 

She will also be traveling all over the country to speak to various women and teen groups in her: D.I.V.A. Manifest Love! Tour.